Friday, February 13, 2015

A Place of Belonging

Conferences, Conventions and Community in 12-step Programs

What I find most exhilarating about being a member of a 12-step program is that there is one place on this earth that understands my weaknesses, shortcomings and potential.  Being in the room with other recovering persons, without concerns about professional standing, economic wealth or gender, is such a relief.  I can be me, the sick person I am who seeks wellness with little or no judgment from my peers.

But the best part about being in recovery, for me, are the conferences.  Boy oh boy, they are so much fun.  We gather to hear the message of recovery from each other, relate to each other’s past, present and future, while participating in healthy activities like karaoke, dancing, buffet dinners, comedy shows and more.  It is the part of our fellowship that society knows nothing about and will never hear about because they are so busy judging our label and disease.

Stuart Miles
Needless to say, the recent attendance at a conference brought me joy.  I am so happy for the opportunity to be rejuvenated, loved by my peers who have similar pasts and presents, and to hear many, many messages of hope rooted in one simple fact:  We Do Recover.

If you have never been to a conference and are in recovery, I suggest you find one and enjoy yourself.  Meet new people, try new things and know that our bad days end and new days unfold if we stay in the process of positive, healthy self-care.

We recover in community.  We get better.  We reclaim our place in our own lives when we connect with others who inspire us, love us and speak truth to us in ways we can’t do alone. 

Be blessed.


M